Why do we have sex?
–Because it feels good? Yes!
–Because it is a form of intimacy with our partners? Yes!
–Because it is a way to relieve stress? Yes!
There are a lot of reasons people have sex, but most importantly the one reason most people have sex is so that they can have an ORGASM
Yes we have sex for 15 minutes, half an hour or maybe even 3 hours just for those few seconds of intense pleasure in the end. But come on, let’s admit it: it is soooo worth it!!
But let’s rewind for a second…
All this talk about orgasms makes it seem like it’s something we should all know about and have experienced before. but I know how it is… some people out there do not get orgasms (I’m sorry) Studies have shown that only 1 in 3 women experience an orgasm during sex, which means 2/3 of women out there are not getting off when they have sex!!
No need to worry though. There are different things that you can try in order to reach an orgasm. Everyone is different and sometimes it takes a while to figure out what is the right thing for you.
Maybe the problem is that you are not sure what an orgasm is. Truth is… no one can tell you exactly what an orgasm is supposed to feel like. So the best way to figure yourself out is experimentation! Sex is all about trying new things. Try different positions with your partner or try things out on yourself first. Don’t be afraid to try!
One day you might think you know what an orgasm is and the next when you feel something even better you might find out you were completely wrong. If you want to know what I mean, you should watch Coming Soon… very funny chick flick! That same thing happens to the girl in the movie… watch!
Like I said, just keep trying. It can’t hurt to keep having sex! It’s good for you. Plus, once you start having orgasms I guarantee you will never want to stop!
Cum again soon!! (haha)
Sex quote of the day: “Sex is like air. It’s not important unless you aren’t getting any.”