You know what comes next!! For those of you that aren’t Biggie fans, the line goes: “Some say the ex make the sex spec-tacular…” & I’m sure many of you couldn’t agree more!
Just think about it: you find yourself single one day and in the mood; you’re hot and bothered and starting to get really frustrated (see my last post) You don’t want to go out and get some strange booty but you’re also not planning on turning to your right hand man (if you know what I mean) So what do you do?
Some would say the answer is easy! Call up your ex! Having sex with your ex has quite a few pros:
- There are no surprises. Since you most likely have had sex with your ex plenty of times, you already know what you’re going to get.
- No guesswork. The two of you probably know each other very well and know each other’s likes and dislikes.
- No hurt feelings. Well, not exactly… surely someone’s feelings might be hurt, but then again you’ve probably hurt each other’s feelings so much already that it won’t really matter.
- Comfort. Face it, we all just want a little love and affection. And with an ex, at least you know the feelings are there somewhere no matter how deeply they’re buried.
On the other hand, having sex with an ex can be stepping into dangerous territory. Researchers say “the behavior could be risky, pushing former partners into emotionally complicated territory where safe-sex measures are likely to be cast aside.” (FoxNews.com) Because sex with an ex can seem so familiar, people might be less likely to use condoms, birth control and other precautions.
The fact of the matter is, when you’re feeling lonely & horny, an ex might seem like the perfect person to turn to. But just be prepared to deal with any consequences. I mean, they ARE your ex for a reason!
Remember, if you have your own thoughts and/or opinions on any of these matters or just have an idea for a future post feel free to e-mail me at firstname.lastname@example.org & follow me on Twitter @jasmine_elissa
Sex quote of the day: “Sex is a part of nature. I go along with nature.”